Not all

Today, I wrote a letter.
I wrote a letter about distance and time, loss and victories. A letter about love and forgiveness.
An overwhelming wave of emotions crushed my heart like a tsunami. Like a tsunami, it gave me back all the good memories of a time I could no longer live. A time of pure joy around these people of mine. However, I realized this was not just another goodbye, nor the last one. "Yours, Mabel." had a different meaning. I felt that the knot tightening us up is not gone, a bit loose perhaps.
I see the time ahead of us all. The experiences which we may be able to share with one another. But not all is unforgivable. Not all is lost. Not all is dead by the distance.

And if…

I was thinking about writing and cooking. Not writing about cook itself. I thought about the place both have in my life.
Well, I like to talk, this is a fact though. However,  as time made me enjoy the silence even more, I have also took pleasure in the power of my imagination. More precisely, to really listen to those thoughts of mine. When I was about eight years old, I got a Mickey Mouse diary (with a locker) as a birthday gift from a cousin. She told me to not waste the pages with silly school (e.g. John & Mabel) stuff. I took it as an order, and after a few days leaving the heartily pages book aside, I wrote my first letter to Kitty* talking about my views/doubts on religion. As I ended it with “Yours, M.W.”, I could not help myself with the felling of secrecy and self-wisdom which I still hold even while I am writing this not so secret letter. In my teenage years, and all the joy and melodrama that the menarche brings, I started to write poetry. Some I can say were good, some where so silly as my thoughts about John a young man I knew. I even had three poems published on a local newspaper, and won a physics book for another one**.  College time made me forget writing, and not until late twenties I restarted with a non-MM diary. I could not go through it longer than a month. I discovered the blessings of creating people (at least in my head) and listening about their stories, while I was playing owl one late night. I have never stopped doing so.
Cooking is in my life, for no surprise, since childhood. I was not a pick child, and loved tasting different flavors. I found it as profession, not only after graduated from college, while studying abroad. And it is been my life long lost vocation.
The fact is I could not imagine my life without doing those things. I think about it a lot, I mean, I make up stories in my mind, and I also create recipes more often than I eat. I find myself often playing with “and if…”.

Well, aufedersein!


* ”Dear Kitty”
** Why not History, Literature or Philosophy?!! Even Latin!

#She could also start shake her Sunday with# George Michael – Faith

The one who has flour at home, does not need massage

Who said that eating is a good way to overcome problems have not tried to knead a bread dough yet.
Let the gooey mixing for the children, and get to business! Pounding, pushing, and pulling the bloody thoughts that are bothering without mercy*!  Then bake it. By the time it’s done, it may not be the prettiest bread you have ever seen nor tasted, however you will feel yourself so much lighter while digesting all the troubles.

And then, there I was enjoying my stress-out bread with homemade jam (yes, I had to tell you about it too), the phone ringed. It turns out I got a job, and I am already packing my stuff for moving again.

New horizons are waiting for me, folks! I could not be happier!
Why do I need a massage when I have flour at home?

Cheerio!


*PLEASE, do not let the dough dry out!

#She could also hear# Cat Power – Living Proof

Onion soup does not make me cry

Well, guess I have been so tremendously interested that I lost the track of time… It is been a month.

It is been a month, and no sight of a job.

Days, weeks passed by… I am unaware of it all; cooking, studying and writing, on what make myself busy and productive. So often, I found myself on a Friday morning, thinking it may be a Tuesday, or even a Wednesday morning instead. Always lost in thoughts, minding on my own business*, going out/sending e-mails with my résumé, and reading. Late night, I can hear the sounds around the house; the wood cracking, the wind passing through the trees outside.
Tonight, I made myself an onion soup. Simple and savory enough for the type of comfort I was looking for; chop-chop-chop**, sautéing, stirring, wait, grab the bowl, bread plus cheese. It is 1:27 am, and , as I type this brief letter, I am having this amazing warmth.
The house sleeps.
I do feel lonely here and there, even though most of the time (ninety-fiveish percent) it is not a bad loneliness-confusing-depressing-frustrating, but a nice felling of getting to know me better. To a better understand of the real meaning of patience, and exercising it.

So long!


* Pinterest.com
** “Bon appétit!”

#She could also hear# Cat Power - Back Of Your Head